there was once i typed "be confident" at msn personal message.
jus at that point of time i feel like typing be confident...but i dun exactly have things tat i need to be confident...perhaps jus too many things i need confidence....
after tat,a question popped up to my mind which is......"how to be confident?"..or "where does confidence come from?"
i couldnt answer myself....
few days passed, a fren of mine suddenly reminded me about the pm i typed...
she said: tat day u typed "be confident at ur personal message there,but how to be confident?? where does confidence come from??"
i just felt so so so wonderful...coz i never expect she will ask me tat,and asked me the question i asked myself tooo...hahaha
well, i didn't answer her when she asked me tat ...bcz,i have no idea about it....
again,few days passed,.....
a sentence suddenly came across my mind....
it is the answer for tat question tat i really dunno where does it came from....coz i dun really sit down n think for even a minute about the question where does confidence from n how to be confident.....
the sentence tat suddenly came across my mind is....be confident = dun suspect...
no matter it is be confident to God, to ourselves, to frens n family and to ppl who related.....it is jus about DUN SUSPECT....
we knew tat God has the best plan for us,why do we still worry about wat to do on next step??? why do we still worry tat would we get a great job,pass the exam,have a great life partner,and etc....God knows it all....so BE CONFIDENT = DUN SUSPECT = no worries....it is jus more than wonderful tat i could described tat my life is in God...i'm so grateful tat i can back to God now after being miserable for many years..
be confident to ourselves, dun suspect ur ability to pass the exam,to work towards dream,to make a task done and so on...(but dun be overestimated ourselves,otherwise will be depressed by ourselves hahaha)....
be confident to ppl...hmmm... need to be a little be more smarter in this sometime hahahaha.....
coz,it related to u trust tat person only u put on hopes n then only related to ur confidence on him/her....anyway,confident on ppl is also meaning about dun suspect them lar.....but,ppl.... if ppl are confident on u,better dun disappoint ppl larr....coz,it's saddening..haha
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Friday, June 26, 2009
信任
能够完全信任一个人，还真的不简单。。。。
随着岁月增长，看到的事情越来越多，就越不敢轻易相信一个人，总是要细心看了再看，才慢慢的把信心增加。
要得到别人的信任也不简单。。。。
有人被骗，只因为在被骗之前，他先有了信任。。。。没有信任，也不会有“被骗”的存在。。。
有谁喜欢被骗？
有谁喜欢骗人？
在还没有骗人家之前，去想像一下被人骗是什么感受。。。。
如果你也是一个不喜欢被别人骗的人，那你也根本不应该去骗人。。。
如果情况真的发展到你一定要讲骗话的时候，先想一下，你讲的骗话是为了什么？会有什么后果等等。。。
easy to say hard to do
人总是逃避不了被别人骗的一天。。。。同意吗？haha
只要自己会站回起来就好了。。。。
信任一个人，是在于你不想去防范他，也认为他不需要你去防范。。。。
如果全世界都没有一个可以让自己百分百信任的人，那人应该很累。。。。24小时都要去防范。。。。。
tis is wat i told a fren before...would like to remind ppl once again here
[等待也是追求的一种方式]
[不要伤害任何一个爱自己的人]
随着岁月增长，看到的事情越来越多，就越不敢轻易相信一个人，总是要细心看了再看，才慢慢的把信心增加。
要得到别人的信任也不简单。。。。
有人被骗，只因为在被骗之前，他先有了信任。。。。没有信任，也不会有“被骗”的存在。。。
有谁喜欢被骗？
有谁喜欢骗人？
在还没有骗人家之前，去想像一下被人骗是什么感受。。。。
如果你也是一个不喜欢被别人骗的人，那你也根本不应该去骗人。。。
如果情况真的发展到你一定要讲骗话的时候，先想一下，你讲的骗话是为了什么？会有什么后果等等。。。
easy to say hard to do
人总是逃避不了被别人骗的一天。。。。同意吗？haha
只要自己会站回起来就好了。。。。
信任一个人，是在于你不想去防范他，也认为他不需要你去防范。。。。
如果全世界都没有一个可以让自己百分百信任的人，那人应该很累。。。。24小时都要去防范。。。。。
tis is wat i told a fren before...would like to remind ppl once again here
[等待也是追求的一种方式]
[不要伤害任何一个爱自己的人]
Thursday, June 25, 2009
silent..
when ppl asked questions, i always felt uneasy if i was the one he/she was asking,and i dun give any response....
bcz, when ppl wan to know the answer for tat question only they will ask tat question...so i will always help ppl answer the question although the person is asking another person instead of me....coz i jus cant left the person without him/her getting the answer he/she wanted to know...
anyway,i do accept tat ppl shall keep silent in certain circumstances....
but i think, it is hard to decide whether silent is good or silent is bad at that point of time....
when questions were asked by ppl, and the one who should be answerable for it don't answer it...he/she is trying to put things in uncertainty...
uncertainty always make things more risky....and even worst sometime....
but in certain circumstances, silent do a great job....
it is a wisdom to choose when to be silent,when not to be silent....
a sentence can brings hopes to ppl at the moment u said it, but right after tat moment, it is not depending on whether u have said tat sentence or not...it is depending on how much confidence tat ppl have towards the sentence u said....
if silent make u feel better, then u should bear the consequences being silent too...
to be silent or not to be...could make a change in jus a second....
bcz, when ppl wan to know the answer for tat question only they will ask tat question...so i will always help ppl answer the question although the person is asking another person instead of me....coz i jus cant left the person without him/her getting the answer he/she wanted to know...
anyway,i do accept tat ppl shall keep silent in certain circumstances....
but i think, it is hard to decide whether silent is good or silent is bad at that point of time....
when questions were asked by ppl, and the one who should be answerable for it don't answer it...he/she is trying to put things in uncertainty...
uncertainty always make things more risky....and even worst sometime....
but in certain circumstances, silent do a great job....
it is a wisdom to choose when to be silent,when not to be silent....
a sentence can brings hopes to ppl at the moment u said it, but right after tat moment, it is not depending on whether u have said tat sentence or not...it is depending on how much confidence tat ppl have towards the sentence u said....
if silent make u feel better, then u should bear the consequences being silent too...
to be silent or not to be...could make a change in jus a second....
Thursday, June 18, 2009
meaning of roses
haha...someone wanted to buy roses for someone....
and sent me this link ask for opinion...
i almost recommended all numbers of flower...
i think the girl will get heart attack on the spot if she got it from her white horse prince hahahaha
share here the meaning of roses...
sometime we dunno how to express ourselves or wan to find other way to express ourselves i think roses are one of the best way
Meaning of Color of Roses:
- Red
Sincere Love & Respect, Courage & Passion
Send red roses to convey the message of your passionate love for that someone; saying "I love you"
- Pink
Grace and Gentility, the rose of sweet thoughts.
Send deep pink roses to show your appreciation & gratitude; saying "Thank you" Send light pink roses to convey admiration and sympathy
- Yellow
In the Victorian times, yellow roses meant jealousy. But today, they signify friendship, joy, gladness and freedom, the promise of a new beginning.
Send yellow roses to brighten up someone's day; to congratulate your friends and loved ones during Joyous occasions.
- White
Spiritual love & Purity, the rose of confession, the bridal rose; "You are heavenly", "I am worthy of you"
Commonly used as traditional bridal bouquet during weddings to symbolize a happy love. You can nevertheless use them to convey the message of "You are heavenly, I miss you"
- Lavender
Love at first sight and enchantment
Send lavender roses of course, to convey the message of your "love at first sight" with that special someone. You can nevertheless also send them if you would like to make a special impression.
- Orange
Passionate desire, pure enthusiasm and fascination
An excellent choice for a new relationship that you wish to pursue further. It can nevertheless also be referring to a new business partnership.
Meaning of Number of Roses:
- 1 Rose Love at the first sight; you are the one
- 2 Roses Mutual love between both, deeply in love with one another
- 3 Roses I love you
- 6 Roses I wanna be yours
- 7 Roses I'm infatuated with you
- 9 Roses An Eternal love, together as long as we live
- 10 Roses You are perfect
- 11 Roses You are my treasured one; the one I love most in my life
- 12 Roses Be my steady
- 13 Roses Secret Admirer
- 15 Roses I am truly sorry, please forgive me
- 20 Roses Believe me, I am sincere towards you
- 21 Roses I am devoted to you
- 24 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, 24 hours everyday
- 33 Roses Saying "I love you" with great affection
- 36 Roses I will remember our romantic moments
- 40 Roses My love for you is genuine
- 50 Roses Regretless love, this is
- 99 Roses I will love you for as long as I live
- 100 Roses Harmoniously together in a century; remaining devoted as couple till ripe-old age
- 101 Roses You are my one and only love
- 108 Roses Please marry me!
- 365 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, each and everyday
- 999 Roses Everlasting and Eternal love
dun buy rose without knowing the meaning of rose ooo...
ppl might misunderstand u kaka...
and sent me this link ask for opinion...
i almost recommended all numbers of flower...
i think the girl will get heart attack on the spot if she got it from her white horse prince hahahaha
share here the meaning of roses...
sometime we dunno how to express ourselves or wan to find other way to express ourselves i think roses are one of the best way
Meaning of Color of Roses:
- Red
Sincere Love & Respect, Courage & Passion
Send red roses to convey the message of your passionate love for that someone; saying "I love you"
- Pink
Grace and Gentility, the rose of sweet thoughts.
Send deep pink roses to show your appreciation & gratitude; saying "Thank you" Send light pink roses to convey admiration and sympathy
- Yellow
In the Victorian times, yellow roses meant jealousy. But today, they signify friendship, joy, gladness and freedom, the promise of a new beginning.
Send yellow roses to brighten up someone's day; to congratulate your friends and loved ones during Joyous occasions.
- White
Spiritual love & Purity, the rose of confession, the bridal rose; "You are heavenly", "I am worthy of you"
Commonly used as traditional bridal bouquet during weddings to symbolize a happy love. You can nevertheless use them to convey the message of "You are heavenly, I miss you"
- Lavender
Love at first sight and enchantment
Send lavender roses of course, to convey the message of your "love at first sight" with that special someone. You can nevertheless also send them if you would like to make a special impression.
- Orange
Passionate desire, pure enthusiasm and fascination
An excellent choice for a new relationship that you wish to pursue further. It can nevertheless also be referring to a new business partnership.
Meaning of Number of Roses:
- 1 Rose Love at the first sight; you are the one
- 2 Roses Mutual love between both, deeply in love with one another
- 3 Roses I love you
- 6 Roses I wanna be yours
- 7 Roses I'm infatuated with you
- 9 Roses An Eternal love, together as long as we live
- 10 Roses You are perfect
- 11 Roses You are my treasured one; the one I love most in my life
- 12 Roses Be my steady
- 13 Roses Secret Admirer
- 15 Roses I am truly sorry, please forgive me
- 20 Roses Believe me, I am sincere towards you
- 21 Roses I am devoted to you
- 24 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, 24 hours everyday
- 33 Roses Saying "I love you" with great affection
- 36 Roses I will remember our romantic moments
- 40 Roses My love for you is genuine
- 50 Roses Regretless love, this is
- 99 Roses I will love you for as long as I live
- 100 Roses Harmoniously together in a century; remaining devoted as couple till ripe-old age
- 101 Roses You are my one and only love
- 108 Roses Please marry me!
- 365 Roses Can't stop thinking about you, each and everyday
- 999 Roses Everlasting and Eternal love
dun buy rose without knowing the meaning of rose ooo...
ppl might misunderstand u kaka...
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
May 2009
it is June now...and i m blogging about things happened in May....
basically, May 2009 is a memorable month for me....not my birthday,not my graduation,not my first salary month,....but it has been a month i experienced a lot of things ....happiness or sadness,laughter or tears...it has formed part of my memory for May 2009....
Early of May, a visitation to Singapore and i enjoyed every single moment i had in Singapore....
it was the first time i drove to s'pore and first time i visit some places in S'pore such as clarke quay....although failed to have a drink at Clinic,but time
spent at Clarke Quay is worth while....
mid of May i was enjoying term break holiday with DIA classmate and our trip to Melaka was a memorable one too......
end of May i had been unintentionally learned a lesson....
no matter good or bad things tat had happened,future is still full of hopes....
and it is jus depends on did we give up and how we "plant" for our life......
hopes and chances are always there for the ppl who not giving up in themselves....
so ppl, dun give up oooo
afterall....
i would like to thanks everyone who had painted my life in May 2009...good or bad,things tat need to be forgiven will be forgiven, things tat need to be changed will be changed,things tat need to be done will be done, things tat need to be forgotten will eventually be forgotten....
ppl who trusted the other is not because they're naive, it is because they thought he/she is the one who really can be trusted...
he/she is stupid if he/she was the one who thought ppl are stupid.
anyway,noone is stupid...bcz God created everyone wit different talents...!!!!
basically, May 2009 is a memorable month for me....not my birthday,not my graduation,not my first salary month,....but it has been a month i experienced a lot of things ....happiness or sadness,laughter or tears...it has formed part of my memory for May 2009....
Early of May, a visitation to Singapore and i enjoyed every single moment i had in Singapore....
it was the first time i drove to s'pore and first time i visit some places in S'pore such as clarke quay....although failed to have a drink at Clinic,but time
spent at Clarke Quay is worth while....
mid of May i was enjoying term break holiday with DIA classmate and our trip to Melaka was a memorable one too......
end of May i had been unintentionally learned a lesson....
no matter good or bad things tat had happened,future is still full of hopes....
and it is jus depends on did we give up and how we "plant" for our life......
hopes and chances are always there for the ppl who not giving up in themselves....
so ppl, dun give up oooo
afterall....
i would like to thanks everyone who had painted my life in May 2009...good or bad,things tat need to be forgiven will be forgiven, things tat need to be changed will be changed,things tat need to be done will be done, things tat need to be forgotten will eventually be forgotten....
ppl who trusted the other is not because they're naive, it is because they thought he/she is the one who really can be trusted...
he/she is stupid if he/she was the one who thought ppl are stupid.
anyway,noone is stupid...bcz God created everyone wit different talents...!!!!
Thursday, June 11, 2009
salt Vs sugar
最近听到一个故事。。。。
有一个人受了伤，却不知道那伤口在流血，开始时是有点痛，但后来，因为有人告诉他，洒在他伤口上的那东西是糖，不是盐。
他竟然相信了，而且还蛮开心的。。。因为他相信告诉他的人不会骗他，凭自己的判断力，也认为那是糖，不是盐。
直到那东西越洒越多，慢慢的渗入伤口时，才知道，原来是盐！
但其实，从开始到最后，他都希望告诉他是糖这件事是真的。
如果有机会给他那么笨，我想他一定希望永远相信那是糖。
但，感受比不上思想，感受到的是盐，思想希望是糖。
最后，其实是盐还是糖，他还是模糊的，还是摸索着。。。
作者认为，糖或盐都没有关系，因为那只是一个经历。
故事完毕。。。
也许这故事并不有趣，但却让我看到很不希望看到人做个“在别人伤口上洒盐”的人。。。
有一个人受了伤，却不知道那伤口在流血，开始时是有点痛，但后来，因为有人告诉他，洒在他伤口上的那东西是糖，不是盐。
他竟然相信了，而且还蛮开心的。。。因为他相信告诉他的人不会骗他，凭自己的判断力，也认为那是糖，不是盐。
直到那东西越洒越多，慢慢的渗入伤口时，才知道，原来是盐！
但其实，从开始到最后，他都希望告诉他是糖这件事是真的。
如果有机会给他那么笨，我想他一定希望永远相信那是糖。
但，感受比不上思想，感受到的是盐，思想希望是糖。
最后，其实是盐还是糖，他还是模糊的，还是摸索着。。。
作者认为，糖或盐都没有关系，因为那只是一个经历。
故事完毕。。。
也许这故事并不有趣，但却让我看到很不希望看到人做个“在别人伤口上洒盐”的人。。。
Sunday, June 7, 2009
dreams come true
dreams are good, we can dream watever we wan,no limitation,no boundaries,especially the dream we included the person we dream for....
everyone talks about their dream, but is tat really tat easy to make dreams come true?
everyone know tat nothing come easily, everything need hard work only we can enjoy the fruits from wat we planted years ago....so wat we planted now will be seen in the future...
wat we said out it might really mean a lot to the person we talked to, but we might be forgetful too...until we forgot wat we promised,it doesn't affect the person tat promise ppl, bcz he/she had forgotten about it, but it affects the person who still remember and keep waiting for the promise....u are jus so bad if u promise ppl n u break it...dun promise ppl if u dun think u can make it,once promise then u must not break it unreasonably.....
anyway, to find a person tat has true sincerity to u is quite hard though.....
ppl, appreciate those who shows sincerity to u ooooo!!!
bcz u might not meet one on next!
i wish, my dreams come true!
i wish, ur dreams come true toooooo.....
life's brief candles....
we dunno wat will be happened on us the next morning,next 10 days,next 5 years and so on...so just patiently wait for God's guidance....
everyone talks about their dream, but is tat really tat easy to make dreams come true?
everyone know tat nothing come easily, everything need hard work only we can enjoy the fruits from wat we planted years ago....so wat we planted now will be seen in the future...
wat we said out it might really mean a lot to the person we talked to, but we might be forgetful too...until we forgot wat we promised,it doesn't affect the person tat promise ppl, bcz he/she had forgotten about it, but it affects the person who still remember and keep waiting for the promise....u are jus so bad if u promise ppl n u break it...dun promise ppl if u dun think u can make it,once promise then u must not break it unreasonably.....
anyway, to find a person tat has true sincerity to u is quite hard though.....
ppl, appreciate those who shows sincerity to u ooooo!!!
bcz u might not meet one on next!
i wish, my dreams come true!
i wish, ur dreams come true toooooo.....
life's brief candles....
we dunno wat will be happened on us the next morning,next 10 days,next 5 years and so on...so just patiently wait for God's guidance....
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