Thursday, February 19, 2009

5 D gathering....

it has been a long time i didn't meet up with secondary school fren d.....i guess,our last met was 3 months ago when we were celebrating mei yee's and see wee's birthday....after tat any gathering they have i also cant turn up!how sad is it....
but this time other than long time din meet up with most of them,and this time the long lost kai zhou is back from australia....sooo...someone organized this gathering before he leaves...this time almost all of us turned up.only few of them who is not in subang area cant make it....
so happy to have gathering!
when time to sit for hours just to talk and update each other news , joking around and zat each other...it is really fun!great time we had last night....jim said we were getting older d...from station 1 gathering became old town white coffee...hahaa...

half way chit chatting there, we saw a lady looks so familiar....guess what!?!....
is our form 5 science teacher! PN. CHUA...hahha....i wonder did she still recognize our face....she walked over to our place,hmmm....means still know us lar...hahaha but she din really remember our name and also dunno which year were we graduated....jus somehow recognized our face....

thought of taking some nice picture that night bcz long time din have time to gather d....but everyone busy chit chatting..before leaving,passed the camera to a waiter and ask him to take for us....no nice group photo tat night bcz the waiter took the photo when everyone not ready yet...haha...



jijimbo and me......he looks not so happy to take pic with me...hahaha.....


the only group photo ......aiz....too far d....but better than none...

i got to back home earlier bcz still need to study for today's test....but surprisingly,today when reached class,,,,miss said the test postpone to next week.....waaaahahaha...how nice is it....!

dunno when will be our next gathering le....everyone is busy in own life ...anyway,i did really enjoy every single gathering!...jus so nice.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

learn through lesson

there are always things to learn in every single lesson. some lessons we learned a lot,from many aspects....everyone learned.also, through lesson, we know more about ourselves and ppl who involved in it ....understanding each other in a better way....
things we found make us know more about ourselves.anything we found which is not a good thing,then, make some changes!human needs improvement right....
let's everyone have the chance and space to improve as we know no one is perfect in this world....
i dun have any philosophy to share here,just to share wat i had been through...ya now i know,we need to make some changes..
all the time i know friendship is important,but never really experience it..bcz all the time i just enjoy playing,talking and joking around...it is so blessed that someone who can make u smile when u cant,someone who can listen to u and care on ur feelings when u need and many things more......soo...appreciate ur frens!!u may need them at anytime,anywhere....like,holand???hahaha......
a meaningful song i mentioned previously became more meaningful after this.....thank you yOu....

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

yuan xiao jie......

haha...outdated post...this happened on last saturday...celebrating yuan xiao jie at church...same like previous year,have 3 lok lok car hahahaha....long time din eat lok lok d.....


we said wan to take pic today,so we did....haha


mercun buatan MIF



we said wan take more pic tat day....we did it...hahaa



MIF...

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

当个好的聆听者

第一次以华文来写blog,感觉还蛮不错。不过很慢.

学院的图书馆是我和朋友break time 去lepak 的地方,因为那里有sofa,magazine,news paper,还蛮舒服一下。。。。哈哈
最近在学院图书馆看到一篇文章,是关于聆听者这类的文章,觉得还蛮不错。在这里分享的只是凭记忆而已,所以不是100%对。
能够找到自己能分享的对象的确很值得高兴!不多不少也证明自己把他看为多重要。一个可以知道自己那么多事情的也是因为自己信任他,当中也许是因为希望在他那得到安慰,鼓励,或想得到他多一点的留意,但一个对自己不细心的人是很难发现到你想要他留意的事情的。也许这时候需派“包容”上场,让“失望”下台,让“希望”成为下一个参赛者,让“爱” 做评判。
当个好的聆听者,不只是听而已,也要给予适当的回应。不要急着讲话或一直把焦点转移到自己的身上, 那样会令那想和你分享的那一位变成你的聆听者。但这是视情况而定的。刚才那个大概是适合那些面临问题或不开心的吧。。。。一般上和一群朋友当然不是那样咯。。。。给予适当的反应也是很考验人的!若一直讲到不关事的回应,那真的超级糟糕。很不好受。

当个好的聆听者也有学问的!不要看轻别人和你的分享,也不看轻听分享的人,因为不是那么容易找到他们的!当然也要学习当个好的聆听者,让对方说得舒服一点。

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

share of thoughts 2

no special updates recently, bcz nothing special happened...
one thing special is i knew a new song ....hahahah....a meaningful song to me...


since nothing special happen,let's jus share some random thing....
i think for most of us we would prefer to have sweet memory,happy moments to recall back than hurts,disappointments,and bad feelings.. "wat we did today will one day be recalled back,so we should live our life happily,put in sweet memories today so can be recalled back in future"...hope it so.....sweet memory is always the best for us!but through hurts,disappointments, we learned, we grew, we discovered.....