phew~~~~finally i had done this tag...been rushing for assignments all the while...finally it is over...no matter wat grade i gonna get, i m released now!!!!2 more to go!!!yes!
001. Real Name : Ho Siew Li
002. Nickname(s): Stella,ilweis
003 Age : 20
004. Horoscope : -
005. Male or Female : Female
006. Elementary : i forgotten the name of my kindergarden
007. Middle School : S.J.K (c) pei chun,S.J.K (c) Chung Kwo
008. High School : SM Confucian, SMK USJ8
009. College School : SEGi College
010. Hair colour : Black
011. Long or Short : Long to the ppl who has short hair, short for the ppl who has long hair...
012. Loud or Quiet : depends on my mood and with whom...the closer the louder..i think..haha
013. Sweats or Jeans : Jeans
014. Phone or Camera : Both
015. Health Freak : Nope
016. Drink or Smoke : nope
017. Do you have a crush on someone : i do..
018. Eat or Drink : both...
019. Piercings : yeap
020. Tattoos : Definitely No
021. Social or Anti-Social : Social
022. Righty or lefty : Righty
023. First piercing : form 2..
024. First relationship : yeap
025. First Best Friend : Ang Li Ying...i remembered that i borrowed her Doraemon comic...haha.. :P
026. First Award : hmm… primary school - best academy awards
027. First Kiss : ^^
028. First Pet : doggieeee
029. First Big Vacation : Temasek.
030. First Love at first sight : Dunno..
031. First Big Birthday : std 4
032. First Surgery : nope..
033. First sport you joined : Badminton..
This or That
034. Orange or Apple juice : Orange juice
035. Rock or Rap : Rap ..though it is weird for me to rap haha..
036. Country or Screamo : no idea
037. NSYNC or Backstreet boys : backstreet boys,,bcz i dunno who is NSYNC
038. Britney spears or Christina Aguilera : XX
039. Night or Day : Night
040. Sun or Moon : Moon
041. TV or Internet : Internet..
042. Playstation or xbox : Playstation...i like racing game
043. Kiss or hug : Hug..
044. Iguana or turtle : Tutu
045. Spider or bee : XX
046. Fall or spring : Both..
047. Limewire or iTunes : tak tau..
048. Soccer or baseball : soccer..with secondary frens in the old days
Currently
049. watching nba game : Nope
050. Drinking : Nope
051. Excitement level : 3/10.
052. I’m about to : sleep
053. Listening to : air-con sound
054. Plan for today : rush up macro assignment!!!
055. Waiting for : time to pass.. :P
056. Energy Level : 1/10
057. Thinking of someone : Definitely..more than 1...waaaa
Future
058. Want kids? :yes
059. Want to get married? : yas
060. When? : 26-27
061. How many kids do you want : 2,3
062. Any name on the mind : lawrence or brian for boy
063. What did you want to be when you were little : Air-stewardess :P
064. Careers in mind : accountant???maybe not...
065. Mellow future or wild : Mellow..
066. Something you would never try : commit suicide…
067. When do you want to die : Not so soon..after 80 :P
Which is the better in the boy/girl you like (in the future)
will be a bit greedy in this part, though some of it might not happen...
068. Lips or Eyes : both
069. Romantic or Funny? : Both.. :P
070. Shorter or Taller? : Taller of course…
071. Protective or Caring? : both...
072. Romantic or Spontaneous? : Romantic....spontaneous in certain circumstances
073. Nice Stomach or Nice Arms? : both
074. Sensitive or Loud? : Sensitive
075. Hook-up or Relationship? : Relationship
076. Trouble Maker or Hesitant? : Neither…
077. Muscular or normal : muscular+normal...little "mouse",hope not to get 6 in 1..
Have you ever
078. Kissed a stranger : Definitely no…
079. Broken a bone : Nope
080. Lost glasses or contacts : Nope
081. Ran away from home : Nope..
082. Held a gun/knife for self defence : Nope
083. Killed somebody : …… no!!
084. Broken some one’s heart : yea...i think so..or think too much...
085. Had your heart broken : Of course
086. Been arrested : Nope
087. Cried when someone died : yes..
088. Liked a friend more than a friend : Yea
Do you believe in
089. Yourself : Sometimes
090. Miracles : Yes
091. Love at first sight : Maybe
092. Heaven : Definitely yes..
093. Santa Claus : Nope…
094. Tooth Fairy : ?? Nope…
095. Kiss in the first date : Maybe
096. Angels : Yes…
097. Is there 1 person you want to be with right now? : yes…
098. Are you seriously happy with where you’re in life now? : 70/100...
099. Do you believe in God? : Of course…
100. Post as 100 truths and tag 10 people
skip no.100
Monday, March 30, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009
Blur-Blue-Bluer
while i were playing with my phone jus now, i thought of changing my phone ring tone.....and i saw "kiss goodbye" in my phone,,,so i changed my ring tone to "kiss goodbye" one of my favourite song although it sounds so sad and outdated haha....
few hours later, while i was surfing net, viewing ppl's blog and you tube listening song...suddenly i heard Kiss goodbye....i was wondering where the music from...i view every sites n blogs...thought who so sad put kiss goodbye to express themselves..hahaha...i was paying so much attention on computer...after viewing every sites and blogs...i feel so mystery that "where the kiss goodbye" from!?!?!....
aaaaaha....turn to the back, only i knew tat it is my phone ringing....too bad...too late to pick up the phone...wakaka....
something i realised---
---it is not a good experience when ppl ignore ur feelings, even if is accidentally ignored---
---it is not a good feeling when after complains there is no solution---
---it is not a good feeling when something we voiced up,but no responses from ppl who shall response---
---involve partner in our own fren's activities is important,i guess---
yea...there's something interesting happened yesterday....
after church dismissed, i walked to S&M shopping centre to do something...on the way getting there, an african said Halllo..to me.n ask,how are u??..with my personality...i will definitely not answer anything n walk even faster....
hahaha...bcz i dunno wat is his intention to say tat to me ........i was walking in front of him...then he walked even faster n asked me the second question.."u worship here?"....
i began to talk with him after this...haha....we began to talk, and he told me he is studying at UCSI n from Nigeria....owh....it is an unusual occasion tat happened on me...it was the first time i being like tat....talked to someone that i dunno at all for so long time.....he asked whether he can follow me to the place i wan to do something...bcz he is freee after tat n he wants to talk more....he said he wants to know more about Malaysia...asked me to tell him anythings about Malaysia......
when a stranger asked tat can they follow me to anywhere i wan to go,normal reaction is "NO".....but tat day was different....a "YES" i responded....i think it is quite interesting .....maybe i m putting myself at risk also...anyway...everything go on smoothly....and i m kind of impressed on his thinking(through something we talked).....then reached a point where we were heading to different direction then BYEBYE lo....
there had been few times a stranger came n talked to me around petaling street area...last time one was even more terrible...kaka......i would say this time is a good one...haha...
few hours later, while i was surfing net, viewing ppl's blog and you tube listening song...suddenly i heard Kiss goodbye....i was wondering where the music from...i view every sites n blogs...thought who so sad put kiss goodbye to express themselves..hahaha...i was paying so much attention on computer...after viewing every sites and blogs...i feel so mystery that "where the kiss goodbye" from!?!?!....
aaaaaha....turn to the back, only i knew tat it is my phone ringing....too bad...too late to pick up the phone...wakaka....
something i realised---
---it is not a good experience when ppl ignore ur feelings, even if is accidentally ignored---
---it is not a good feeling when after complains there is no solution---
---it is not a good feeling when something we voiced up,but no responses from ppl who shall response---
---involve partner in our own fren's activities is important,i guess---
yea...there's something interesting happened yesterday....
after church dismissed, i walked to S&M shopping centre to do something...on the way getting there, an african said Halllo..to me.n ask,how are u??..with my personality...i will definitely not answer anything n walk even faster....
hahaha...bcz i dunno wat is his intention to say tat to me ........i was walking in front of him...then he walked even faster n asked me the second question.."u worship here?"....
i began to talk with him after this...haha....we began to talk, and he told me he is studying at UCSI n from Nigeria....owh....it is an unusual occasion tat happened on me...it was the first time i being like tat....talked to someone that i dunno at all for so long time.....he asked whether he can follow me to the place i wan to do something...bcz he is freee after tat n he wants to talk more....he said he wants to know more about Malaysia...asked me to tell him anythings about Malaysia......
when a stranger asked tat can they follow me to anywhere i wan to go,normal reaction is "NO".....but tat day was different....a "YES" i responded....i think it is quite interesting .....maybe i m putting myself at risk also...anyway...everything go on smoothly....and i m kind of impressed on his thinking(through something we talked).....then reached a point where we were heading to different direction then BYEBYE lo....
there had been few times a stranger came n talked to me around petaling street area...last time one was even more terrible...kaka......i would say this time is a good one...haha...
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Tagged by Jin Sean (3)
i jus done a tag by pui kei few days ago and now i got the same tag,but since its from Ms Ngu Jin Sean,takkan i dun reply ur tag,right?.:-)...feel so familiar with tat sentence??yes i feel so...haha
Directions: Once you’ve been tagged, you’ve to write a blog or a note on Facebook with 16 random things, facts, habits or goals about you. At the end, choose 10 people to tag, listing their names & why you choose them. Don’t forget to leave them a comment (”you’re it”) and to read your blog. You can’t tag the person that tagged you. Since you can’t tag me, let me know when you’ve posted your blog/note, so I can see your weirdness. (:
Stella:
> is thinking of when can complete assignments
> is missing someone
> is afraid of losing ppl around
> is unsure about something sometime...although it is actually "sure" but she will confuse herself
> is touched by someone
> is quiet at times but can talk alot with close friends…
> loves ppl do things with HEART....please get my hint...wahahaha..bui pai seh...
> like to see photo again n again n again...hahaha
> hope to pass all her subjects this semester
> can not talk when i wan to cry
> loves memories
> dun express much in words sometime...i prefer appreciate things in heart without telling ppl sometime
> enjoy going out with frens
> is skeptical....sometime
> likes to kacau ppl tat i like and dare to kacau
> thinking of who to tag
wahahaha...i done a tag again...suppose to do my assignment...again...i m doing this....release my stress
i simply cant think of who to tag again,if tag the person who tagged me again like so bad to her...hahahaha....
~HAPPY DAY~
Directions: Once you’ve been tagged, you’ve to write a blog or a note on Facebook with 16 random things, facts, habits or goals about you. At the end, choose 10 people to tag, listing their names & why you choose them. Don’t forget to leave them a comment (”you’re it”) and to read your blog. You can’t tag the person that tagged you. Since you can’t tag me, let me know when you’ve posted your blog/note, so I can see your weirdness. (:
Stella:
> is thinking of when can complete assignments
> is missing someone
> is afraid of losing ppl around
> is unsure about something sometime...although it is actually "sure" but she will confuse herself
> is touched by someone
> is quiet at times but can talk alot with close friends…
> loves ppl do things with HEART....please get my hint...wahahaha..bui pai seh...
> like to see photo again n again n again...hahaha
> hope to pass all her subjects this semester
> can not talk when i wan to cry
> loves memories
> dun express much in words sometime...i prefer appreciate things in heart without telling ppl sometime
> enjoy going out with frens
> is skeptical....sometime
> likes to kacau ppl tat i like and dare to kacau
> thinking of who to tag
wahahaha...i done a tag again...suppose to do my assignment...again...i m doing this....release my stress
i simply cant think of who to tag again,if tag the person who tagged me again like so bad to her...hahahaha....
~HAPPY DAY~
assignment
this pic best reflected my mood for doing assignments this semester....
really hope i can make it done in 1 day....but i think it is impossible...
with my slow thinking,slow action,.....so result also S-L-O-W
every time when fren reminded me about assignment, i hope i can give out the loudest yellllllll......now i realised tat swimming pool is the best place to yell out!
i scare i simply yell out will scared ppl...hahahaha....also hurt my throat....
thanks to KK tat always talk to me about assignment....tat make me started my assignment at least with some calculation....
GAM BA TEH!
Thursday, March 12, 2009
a nice song...
Aku yang lemah tanpamu
Aku yang rentan karena
cinta yang tlah hilang darimu
yang mampu menyanjungku
Selama mata terbuka
Sampai jantung tak berdetak
selama itu pun
aku mampu tuk mengenangmu
Darimu, kutemukan hidupku
Bagiku, kau lah cinta sejati
Bila yang tertulis untukku
Adalah yang terbaik untukmu
Kan kujadikan kau kenangan
Yang terindah dalam hidupku
Namun takkan mudah bagiku
Meninggalkan jejak hidupku
Yang telah terukir abadi
Sebagai kenangan yang terindah
Aku yang rentan karena
cinta yang tlah hilang darimu
yang mampu menyanjungku
Selama mata terbuka
Sampai jantung tak berdetak
selama itu pun
aku mampu tuk mengenangmu
Darimu, kutemukan hidupku
Bagiku, kau lah cinta sejati
Bila yang tertulis untukku
Adalah yang terbaik untukmu
Kan kujadikan kau kenangan
Yang terindah dalam hidupku
Namun takkan mudah bagiku
Meninggalkan jejak hidupku
Yang telah terukir abadi
Sebagai kenangan yang terindah
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
random 1
sometime ppl might doing something wrong but they din notice....and i think i m also one of them doing something not so good at tat point of time but i din notice....maybe not "seng mok" enough...
tat make things go not so smoothly....
a sentence can jus hurt a person, or delight ppl....a reaction can mean differently to different ppl...all is dependent on how the person takes it....
when a person cant really express themselves,maybe we should try guessing it..and add in with some solutions.so tat we can make him/her feel better....
things in the past,no matter wat we said,done,made,experienced,...all might be very meaningful at tat point of time,but when time goes by....sometime we might get blur with it...wonder is tat thing still exist??still with us??still belongs to us???
everything tat is doing or done with a heart is always existed and we can feel it no matter how long ago it happened in the past....
the key is =======>>>>>H_E_A_R_T
wan to have H_E_A_R_T is quite H_A_R_D also sometime.......but still possible!ga yao
tat make things go not so smoothly....
a sentence can jus hurt a person, or delight ppl....a reaction can mean differently to different ppl...all is dependent on how the person takes it....
when a person cant really express themselves,maybe we should try guessing it..and add in with some solutions.so tat we can make him/her feel better....
things in the past,no matter wat we said,done,made,experienced,...all might be very meaningful at tat point of time,but when time goes by....sometime we might get blur with it...wonder is tat thing still exist??still with us??still belongs to us???
everything tat is doing or done with a heart is always existed and we can feel it no matter how long ago it happened in the past....
the key is =======>>>>>H_E_A_R_T
wan to have H_E_A_R_T is quite H_A_R_D also sometime.......but still possible!ga yao
Sunday, March 8, 2009
a revenge from miss pui kei
Directions: Once you've been tagged, you've to write a blog or a note on Facebook with 16 random things, facts, habits or goals about you. At the end, choose 10 people to tag, listing their names & why you choose them. Don't forget to leave them a comment ("you're it") and to read your blog. You can't tag the person that tagged you. Since you can't tag me, let me know when you've posted your blog/note, so I can see your weirdness. (:
Ho Siew Li
>>is blogging
>>likes jokes...
>>can be VERY lame only if in front of ppl who are real closed...in front of friends,jus...lame...only when the time for lame moment...
>>is studying at SEGi...
>>is thinking of who to tag later...
>>is currently felt so stressful with FA5 and finance AAAASIGNMENTS!!!!
>>LOVES God,family,VVIP n VIPs,friends,dogs and myself....hahaha
>>loves vacations as if provided with money,time and companions....
>>loves sea~~~~~....
>>loves TVB drama..but seldom watch d...aiz...
>>loves old songs...
>>loves chatting with friends when i m bored
>>loves guessing
>>dunno wat else i love...let's tell wat i hate...hate lies,dishonesty...many things more..
>>loves listening story...
i tag~~~~~
1.jin sean
whenever have tag will think of her...bcz first tag from her.(never mean to revenge....haha)
2.xuan hui
wan to know her more n more n more n more n more...hahahahahahaha
3.eden
bcz...deng deng deng deng.....no reason...jus want tag..hahaha
4.kai tit
bcz know him little bit only...hehe
5.jia lin
bcz lost contact for sometime...need to know more about her ahaha
6.pek kee
to test tat did she read my blog haha...
7.cacing
wan to see how a worm know to type on computer...A WORM!!
8.alvin
wan to know more about him
9. pui kei
bcz i cant think of who to tag d so i need to break the rules haha...
suppose to do my assignments now...but blogging attracts me more!!dunno how to face this 2 assignments..complain to sir jus wont works...bcz he will think tat is easy...jus we are not putting effort in it....maybe yes,maybe no lo...when wan to put effort tat time also must let us know from where we can find the "effort" to put ...now no idea...!!
Ho Siew Li
>>is blogging
>>likes jokes...
>>can be VERY lame only if in front of ppl who are real closed...in front of friends,jus...lame...only when the time for lame moment...
>>is studying at SEGi...
>>is thinking of who to tag later...
>>is currently felt so stressful with FA5 and finance AAAASIGNMENTS!!!!
>>LOVES God,family,VVIP n VIPs,friends,dogs and myself....hahaha
>>loves vacations as if provided with money,time and companions....
>>loves sea~~~~~....
>>loves TVB drama..but seldom watch d...aiz...
>>loves old songs...
>>loves chatting with friends when i m bored
>>loves guessing
>>dunno wat else i love...let's tell wat i hate...hate lies,dishonesty...many things more..
>>loves listening story...
i tag~~~~~
1.jin sean
whenever have tag will think of her...bcz first tag from her.(never mean to revenge....haha)
2.xuan hui
wan to know her more n more n more n more n more...hahahahahahaha
3.eden
bcz...deng deng deng deng.....no reason...jus want tag..hahaha
4.kai tit
bcz know him little bit only...hehe
5.jia lin
bcz lost contact for sometime...need to know more about her ahaha
6.pek kee
to test tat did she read my blog haha...
7.cacing
wan to see how a worm know to type on computer...A WORM!!
8.alvin
wan to know more about him
9. pui kei
bcz i cant think of who to tag d so i need to break the rules haha...
suppose to do my assignments now...but blogging attracts me more!!dunno how to face this 2 assignments..complain to sir jus wont works...bcz he will think tat is easy...jus we are not putting effort in it....maybe yes,maybe no lo...when wan to put effort tat time also must let us know from where we can find the "effort" to put ...now no idea...!!
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
friends
jus read a mail in inbox, find it quite interesting and part of it is quite meaningful, would like to copy and paste here....keke...it is all about friendship....
一 個 人 可 以 毫 無 道 理 跟 你 做 一 輩 子 親 戚 , 但 一 個 人 不 會 毫 無 道 理 跟 你 做 一 輩 子 朋 友
朋 友 就 是 喜 歡 你 也 了 解 你 的 人
時 間 未 必 O 你 我 成 為 知 己 的 原 因
但 一 定 可 以 証 明 到
你 對 朋 友 的 關 懷 不 是 白 費 ！
希 望 您 永 遠 都 係 我 的 好 朋 友 ！
朋 友 ， 是 你 高 興 時 想 跟 他 分 享 的 ，
朋 友 ， 是 你 不 高 興 時 可 以 給 你 發 脾 氣 的 ，
朋 友 ， 也 是 在 你 沒 錢 開 飯 時 打 救 你 的 ，
朋 友 ， 你 悶 得 發 荒 時 可 以 跟 你 一 同 發 荒 的 ，
朋 友 ， 會 甘 願 給 功 課 你 抄 ， 跟 你 一 同 出 貓 一 同 被 人 罰 的 ，
朋 友 ， 也 是 你 買 手 信 時 ， 想 買 一 份 大 的 給 他 的，
朋 友 ， 也 是 你 看 見 他 上 線 時 ， 想 給 他 ' 喔 噢 ' ！
朋 友 就 是 無 形 中 伴 你 走 過 風 雨 ， 永 遠 支 持 你 的 力 量
朋 友 就 是 一 種 無 法 言 喻 的 美 好 感 覺
朋 友 就 是 在 別 人 面 前 永 遠 护 著 你 的 那 個 人
朋 友 就 是 即 使 是 一 點 小 感 動 ， 一 點 小 事 情 都 想 一 起 分 享
朋 友 就 是 当 你 抱 頭 痛 哭 的 時 候 ， 扶 著 你 肩 膀 的 那 個 人
朋 友 就 是 当 你 面 對 人 生 挫 折 時 ， 一 直 緊 握 你 的 那 雙 手
it is all about friends....
not every sentence as mentioned as above i had been through,only part of it tat really mean to me.although i had never cry on a shoulder of a friend before, but i do hope when i need it the shoulder is there.....sounds so great man!
i like the feeling of being protected by friend as mentioned tat “朋 友 就 是 在 別 人 面 前 永 遠 护 著 你 的 那 個 人” how nice it is!!when i am embarrassed,he/she come and rescue me!!also,not to say tat when i m wrong then he/she say i m correct,but, in a way tat say i m wrong and at the same time "protecting " me.....lalala~~~dunno how is it also lar...as long as the feeling of being protected is there...tat's it....
sometime when we were all busy in our own life, dun have time to meet up, dun have time to talk, dun have time to play around, dun have time for trip,dun have time to do this and that together.....
all the while i feel so nice to be a friend tat doesn't need to be so shy,so polite,so becareful when i talk, and many things more la....also can talk from A-Z...maybe in between keep some as privacy haha but jus a minority one....tat is really comfortable....eeeheeee.....okie...after all,i miss my friend!thought of someone not necessary to tell him/her tat we thought of them...but sometime i feel better to tell!....bcz i m tat kind of person tat u dun tell,then i wouldnt know .....but surprisingly, sometime i can sense things very well...**cough** wahaha...
cute friend...who's the black one...
建 立 友 誼 如 像 種 樹 ， 因 為 友 誼 是 一 株 樹 ( T R E E ) :
T : T r u s t ( 信 任 )
R : R e s p e c t ( 尊 重 )
E : E x c h a n g e ( 交 流 )
E : E m o t i o n a l S u p p o r t ( 精 神 支 持 )
these days were quite boring,talk lesser and lesser, assignments ahead!!!!!got to start it soon!!!hope i can do it all in one shot....sekaligus habiskan all assignments.....then time to study....i hope can sekaligus habiskan my studies also wahahaaha...then i can sekaligus ...hmmm..wat to do on next???....
一 個 人 可 以 毫 無 道 理 跟 你 做 一 輩 子 親 戚 , 但 一 個 人 不 會 毫 無 道 理 跟 你 做 一 輩 子 朋 友
朋 友 就 是 喜 歡 你 也 了 解 你 的 人
時 間 未 必 O 你 我 成 為 知 己 的 原 因
但 一 定 可 以 証 明 到
你 對 朋 友 的 關 懷 不 是 白 費 ！
希 望 您 永 遠 都 係 我 的 好 朋 友 ！
朋 友 ， 是 你 高 興 時 想 跟 他 分 享 的 ，
朋 友 ， 是 你 不 高 興 時 可 以 給 你 發 脾 氣 的 ，
朋 友 ， 也 是 在 你 沒 錢 開 飯 時 打 救 你 的 ，
朋 友 ， 你 悶 得 發 荒 時 可 以 跟 你 一 同 發 荒 的 ，
朋 友 ， 會 甘 願 給 功 課 你 抄 ， 跟 你 一 同 出 貓 一 同 被 人 罰 的 ，
朋 友 ， 也 是 你 買 手 信 時 ， 想 買 一 份 大 的 給 他 的，
朋 友 ， 也 是 你 看 見 他 上 線 時 ， 想 給 他 ' 喔 噢 ' ！
朋 友 就 是 無 形 中 伴 你 走 過 風 雨 ， 永 遠 支 持 你 的 力 量
朋 友 就 是 一 種 無 法 言 喻 的 美 好 感 覺
朋 友 就 是 在 別 人 面 前 永 遠 护 著 你 的 那 個 人
朋 友 就 是 即 使 是 一 點 小 感 動 ， 一 點 小 事 情 都 想 一 起 分 享
朋 友 就 是 当 你 抱 頭 痛 哭 的 時 候 ， 扶 著 你 肩 膀 的 那 個 人
朋 友 就 是 当 你 面 對 人 生 挫 折 時 ， 一 直 緊 握 你 的 那 雙 手
it is all about friends....
not every sentence as mentioned as above i had been through,only part of it tat really mean to me.although i had never cry on a shoulder of a friend before, but i do hope when i need it the shoulder is there.....sounds so great man!
i like the feeling of being protected by friend as mentioned tat “朋 友 就 是 在 別 人 面 前 永 遠 护 著 你 的 那 個 人” how nice it is!!when i am embarrassed,he/she come and rescue me!!also,not to say tat when i m wrong then he/she say i m correct,but, in a way tat say i m wrong and at the same time "protecting " me.....lalala~~~dunno how is it also lar...as long as the feeling of being protected is there...tat's it....
sometime when we were all busy in our own life, dun have time to meet up, dun have time to talk, dun have time to play around, dun have time for trip,dun have time to do this and that together.....
all the while i feel so nice to be a friend tat doesn't need to be so shy,so polite,so becareful when i talk, and many things more la....also can talk from A-Z...maybe in between keep some as privacy haha but jus a minority one....tat is really comfortable....eeeheeee.....okie...after all,i miss my friend!thought of someone not necessary to tell him/her tat we thought of them...but sometime i feel better to tell!....bcz i m tat kind of person tat u dun tell,then i wouldnt know .....but surprisingly, sometime i can sense things very well...**cough** wahaha...
cute friend...who's the black one...
建 立 友 誼 如 像 種 樹 ， 因 為 友 誼 是 一 株 樹 ( T R E E ) :
T : T r u s t ( 信 任 )
R : R e s p e c t ( 尊 重 )
E : E x c h a n g e ( 交 流 )
E : E m o t i o n a l S u p p o r t ( 精 神 支 持 )
these days were quite boring,talk lesser and lesser, assignments ahead!!!!!got to start it soon!!!hope i can do it all in one shot....sekaligus habiskan all assignments.....then time to study....i hope can sekaligus habiskan my studies also wahahaaha...then i can sekaligus ...hmmm..wat to do on next???....
Monday, March 2, 2009
印象
印象是个很特别的东西，因为一旦那印象印在人的脑海里，那就成为了他的记忆。回忆是从记忆来的。当某个不好的印象印在别人的脑海后，自然的在回忆时那不好的印象总会冒出来，告诉自己他曾今留下这不好的印象。相反的，当留下好印象给别人后，在那人的脑海里总会欣赏你是个有好印象的人。
个人认为，印象对每个人来说都很重要。但其实也有矛盾的地方。因为，也有人不会那么在意别人如何看待自己，所以也不会太过顾及个人印象。对于那在意“印象”的人而言，一个人给别人的印象也决定了自己是否是一个被别人信任的人，可靠的人，可托付的人，等等。。。所以印象才变得那么重要。
曾经看过一篇文章关于一位老师对学生有不同的印象而做出不同的举动。一位好学生，在班上总是循规蹈矩、准时交功课、守有好行为的学生，有一天要交功课时，这位学生告诉老师他忘了带来学校。老师就凭他说的这一句话就相信他了！可见老师凭他以往留给人的印象，断定他是一个值得信任的人。随着便告诉学生，那你就明天交吧。。。。
另外一位表现没那么出色、总是惹事生非、比较好动、调皮的学生，同样的告诉老师他忘了带功课来交。老师却责备这位学生并认为是学生还没把功课做完而交不上功课。明显地，老师对这位学生不信任了！。。也许有人会说老师偏心，也许有人会认同老师的做法，因为两位学生给了不同的印象，而导致不同的对待方式，和“信任”与“不信任”。
应该大多数人都会象老师一样，以印象来下判断。这样的方式其实是蛮残酷的。但是却可以时常警惕及保护自己。每个人都会希望除了家人以外，能找到自己可以信任的人吧！也会有人认为有可以信任的家人就够，但其实也有人认为家人也不能完全信靠。这显示了人是软弱的，也是有限的，是如此的渺小。
其实人与人之间是存着非常基本的信任的，无论他是一个陌生人或是认识的朋友。而更深的信任是需要时间建立起来的，也并不那么容易。所以，能令人深深的信任或能深深的信任人，都是一件很珍贵的事情来的！但往往有些人就是不懂得珍惜别人对他的信任，而去犯错。
伤害一个信任你的人也是很残酷的。因为信任你，就不会想到会从你那受到伤害(信任方面的伤害，但其实没有人会喜欢受任何的伤害咯。。。)。所以，一旦受到伤害，选择保护自己的人会给回你残酷的回应。那就是以你所给的这个坏印象来断定你是一个不值得再信任的人。而若能够再次信任你，其实不是因为他不保护自己，而是，他不要那么残酷，所以给多一次机会才来决定你是否是一个值得信任的人。能够做一个被人信任的人是幸福的！能够找到真的值得信任的人也是很幸福的！但其实不同的人有不同的想法，因为世界上那么多人不可能都异口同声的赞同以上这一个说法，所以希望大家都能找到自己幸福的路。希望大家都是幸福的！
:-)
个人认为，印象对每个人来说都很重要。但其实也有矛盾的地方。因为，也有人不会那么在意别人如何看待自己，所以也不会太过顾及个人印象。对于那在意“印象”的人而言，一个人给别人的印象也决定了自己是否是一个被别人信任的人，可靠的人，可托付的人，等等。。。所以印象才变得那么重要。
曾经看过一篇文章关于一位老师对学生有不同的印象而做出不同的举动。一位好学生，在班上总是循规蹈矩、准时交功课、守有好行为的学生，有一天要交功课时，这位学生告诉老师他忘了带来学校。老师就凭他说的这一句话就相信他了！可见老师凭他以往留给人的印象，断定他是一个值得信任的人。随着便告诉学生，那你就明天交吧。。。。
另外一位表现没那么出色、总是惹事生非、比较好动、调皮的学生，同样的告诉老师他忘了带功课来交。老师却责备这位学生并认为是学生还没把功课做完而交不上功课。明显地，老师对这位学生不信任了！。。也许有人会说老师偏心，也许有人会认同老师的做法，因为两位学生给了不同的印象，而导致不同的对待方式，和“信任”与“不信任”。
应该大多数人都会象老师一样，以印象来下判断。这样的方式其实是蛮残酷的。但是却可以时常警惕及保护自己。每个人都会希望除了家人以外，能找到自己可以信任的人吧！也会有人认为有可以信任的家人就够，但其实也有人认为家人也不能完全信靠。这显示了人是软弱的，也是有限的，是如此的渺小。
其实人与人之间是存着非常基本的信任的，无论他是一个陌生人或是认识的朋友。而更深的信任是需要时间建立起来的，也并不那么容易。所以，能令人深深的信任或能深深的信任人，都是一件很珍贵的事情来的！但往往有些人就是不懂得珍惜别人对他的信任，而去犯错。
伤害一个信任你的人也是很残酷的。因为信任你，就不会想到会从你那受到伤害(信任方面的伤害，但其实没有人会喜欢受任何的伤害咯。。。)。所以，一旦受到伤害，选择保护自己的人会给回你残酷的回应。那就是以你所给的这个坏印象来断定你是一个不值得再信任的人。而若能够再次信任你，其实不是因为他不保护自己，而是，他不要那么残酷，所以给多一次机会才来决定你是否是一个值得信任的人。能够做一个被人信任的人是幸福的！能够找到真的值得信任的人也是很幸福的！但其实不同的人有不同的想法，因为世界上那么多人不可能都异口同声的赞同以上这一个说法，所以希望大家都能找到自己幸福的路。希望大家都是幸福的！
:-)
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