Tuesday, June 30, 2009

how to be confident?

there was once i typed "be confident" at msn personal message.
jus at that point of time i feel like typing be confident...but i dun exactly have things tat i need to be confident...perhaps jus too many things i need confidence....

after tat,a question popped up to my mind which is......"how to be confident?"..or "where does confidence come from?"
i couldnt answer myself....

few days passed, a fren of mine suddenly reminded me about the pm i typed...
she said: tat day u typed "be confident at ur personal message there,but how to be confident?? where does confidence come from??"

i just felt so so so wonderful...coz i never expect she will ask me tat,and asked me the question i asked myself tooo...hahaha
well, i didn't answer her when she asked me tat ...bcz,i have no idea about it....

again,few days passed,.....
a sentence suddenly came across my mind....
it is the answer for tat question tat i really dunno where does it came from....coz i dun really sit down n think for even a minute about the question where does confidence from n how to be confident.....

the sentence tat suddenly came across my mind is....be confident = dun suspect...

no matter it is be confident to God, to ourselves, to frens n family and to ppl who related.....it is jus about DUN SUSPECT....

we knew tat God has the best plan for us,why do we still worry about wat to do on next step??? why do we still worry tat would we get a great job,pass the exam,have a great life partner,and etc....God knows it all....so BE CONFIDENT = DUN SUSPECT = no worries....it is jus more than wonderful tat i could described tat my life is in God...i'm so grateful tat i can back to God now after being miserable for many years..

be confident to ourselves, dun suspect ur ability to pass the exam,to work towards dream,to make a task done and so on...(but dun be overestimated ourselves,otherwise will be depressed by ourselves hahaha)....

be confident to ppl...hmmm... need to be a little be more smarter in this sometime hahahaha.....
coz,it related to u trust tat person only u put on hopes n then only related to ur confidence on him/her....anyway,confident on ppl is also meaning about dun suspect them lar.....but,ppl.... if ppl are confident on u,better dun disappoint ppl larr....coz,it's saddening..haha

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